A Man's Protective Instinct

What do men want? Besides a cozy refuge and peace and quiet to pursue the things they enjoy, they want - no surprise - the female sex by their side. Yes, men want women. But what kind of women do they want? Here are a few facts on the most common opinions - beyond the usual clichés about model measurements and the idea that only slim women with long hair and long legs are the real deal. They see themselves as protectors and want to stand up for the woman they love.

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That may well be one reason why most men want a woman who is shorter than they are (there are exceptions, of course, in matters of "where love lands," but the fact is that around 85% of men do wish for a shorter woman). And when he then receives real recognition for his deeds and achievements (also thanks to his protective behavior), his standing rises and it is a boon for the male ego. Blind loyalty from a woman is not in demand in the male world; what matters more is that, thanks to his support, she values and loves him even more, which in turn boosts his ego. She is happy to support him as long as she doesn't have to give up her own interests in the process.

 

Men Want Women by Their Side Who...

 

... aren't divas. Women who complain about breaking a nail at the slightest bit of work are not for the lords of creation. ... aren't jealous. Above all, they want to do their own thing without their "better half" constantly looking over their shoulder and asking, in a controlling way, what he's doing - or thinking! ...encourage them and show understanding. Just as women like to be encouraged in who they are and what they do, so do the lords of creation. ... are caring and also show appreciation.

Sometimes men really suffer. Whether it's because the boss didn't like a proposal or because a cold has them firmly in its grip. In such situations it feels good when the man's partner takes care of his state of mind in a caring and understanding way. ...speak plainly. No fake sulking, no hidden messages, just say clearly and plainly what's going on - but without constantly nagging, please. Men like things uncomplicated, no beating around the bush for long, just getting straight to the point.

Men Want Women Who Enjoy Sex

Not all of them are completely driven by their hormones, but sexuality and eroticism still play an important role in a man's life. And here men want women who (especially in bed) show confidence and initiative and clearly say (or show) what they enjoy and what is off the table

1. Listening
2. Being attentive
3. Being considerate
4. Smiling

Men want women who feel good in their bodies - regardless of their current dress size. On top of that comes not just joy in sex, but joy in life in general. Someone who goes on a date or comes home and just gets an earful about how crappy life is will not only avoid such situations but will also be driven away by exactly that. It should also be said: men want women who are natural. Not just in terms of looks (with little or no makeup) but also in that she doesn't pretend or desperately try to project a certain image of herself (for example, that she's into football when she really can't stand it).