How You Can Win Over Your Dream Woman, Too

Who doesn't dream of true love? Whether men or women, everyone longs for it somehow. Even the coolest men fall for love at some point, but all too often that ends in a heartbreak scenario.

The object of your affection wants nothing to do with you, or has no idea yet that Cupid's arrow is waiting for her not far away. Below you will find a few tips on how to win over your dream woman.

Winning over your dream woman at work

Coworkers often fall in love with each other. One of them, of course, while the other is either taken or doesn't know about her luck yet. If you're in love with your female coworker, you should by no means come on too strong right away.

Here you have to be tactical. Women love men who pay attention to them. Ask your coworker every morning how she's doing, offer her a coffee, run her lunch errands and so on. A hot tip is always the smoke break. If you don't smoke, join in anyway. Witty lines like "Mind if I watch you smoke?" are fine now and then and help in winning over your dream woman. At work, it's advisable to build a friendship first, which makes it less embarrassing

if you do get turned down. Attention, listening and kindness are definitely among the basic rules every man should remember.

Winning over your dream woman in other places

It gets harder when you keep seeing a woman but don't know her. Let alone know her name or where she lives. Don't follow her around privately like a stalker; that could be taken the wrong way. Example: she is a supermarket cashier. Whatever you do, don't make the mistake of approaching this woman openly right away. You have to earn her trust. Become a regular at the supermarket. Shop at exactly this woman's register every day, leave a tip, wish her a nice day. Say hello

1. Approach her openly
2. Talk to her nicely
3. Draw her into a harmless conversation

and ask the lady how she's doing. After a few weeks, once you're greeted with a smile, you should dare to ask her out for a coffee. Simply by greeting her every day and being friendly, you're already making friends. Such courtesies are rather rare these days, so gestures like these quickly earn you points. Since you keep coming back, the lady trusts you. It's not just a quick pickup line, because you came by again and again for many days beforehand. People you know are easier to trust, even if you only ever see them superficially.

• Politeness
• Giving compliments
• Behaving attentively

Whether you already know the lady personally or want to win over a stranger as your dream woman, take your time. On a date, getting to know each other should come first. Don't start making advances too quickly, unless the lady gives clear signals. Restraint is best. An optimal middle ground should be found. But don't wait too long either, because otherwise the lady might think you don't desire her. Earn your dream woman's trust, and you've already won.